Monday, 12 November 2012

Toussaint and French depression...

Toussaint and French depression....

Hoping that will be obvious that the title of this blog instalment is a slight exaggeration on the facts, I'm not actually suffering from depression. That would just be me utilising my natural British sarcasm. 
To explain, whilst I am having a great time in France, and the first half of my semester was filled with travels, new friends and a new language. When I returned to Nancy just over a week ago from a few days at home with my boyfriend and my family, I couldn't help but hate everything about this country that I had previously loved. It did not help that it rained non-stop for 4 days - something I should be used to but nevertheless depressing and I just wanted to go home!  The fact was I had spent a week indulging in British goods, shopping in British shops with reasonable prices, having no language issues and having stuff to do on a sunday! 
They tell us Erasmus students that we can apply how we are feeling to some sort of chart. Clearly a 'feelings chart' is not how I would have anticipated ever donating any resonance to, especially during the year when the word 'stress' does not exist in my vocabulary. However, it does indicate that we can expect to feel a little lost and discouraged at this point in the first semester. And how are we encouraged to overcome this expected depression? Just get on with it!!
So long story short, a week later, I am fully recovered from this short lived depression and have enjoyed a week of surprise 8.30am exams (enjoyed more the hilarity of the situation than actually doing said surprise exams), hot chocolates in the sun on Place Stan, a trip to the Opéra Nationale (not as pretentious as it sounds), and a piss up on Friday night in a delicious traditional French cheese restaurant. All in all, a good week.
Got lots to look forward to in the coming weeks too so I think it would be safe to say that I have got through my depression, or to phrase it better and more politically correct words, my sulk. Next weekend I am going to Switzerland to compete with Nancy women's performance squad which should be interesting. Iv got another trip home and a visit from my friend Holly, potentially a weekend in Paris and probably a load more surprise exams to look forward to. Christmas is going to be here before I know it....this year is going FAR too fast!!

Bises mes amies.

Xxxx
PS. Apologies for ridiculousness of this post!!!

Wednesday, 24 October 2012

En fait...c'est la vie

En fait....c'est la vie

I have now been in France for nearly two months...now that is just what one could only call 'incroyable' (unbelievable). Time really is flying as the days where I feel like a lost puppy are becoming few and far between. Days in Nancy are beginning to form a structure and communication with Frenchies is becoming mildly less terrifying. I can not seem to explain why or how my French seems to be improving, as my efforts until late consisted of intermittent lecture attendance and talking to Frenchies in previously mentioned nightclubs, where after a few Vin Rosés my french becomes quasi-fluent. I would have to put it down to my continuing curiosity as to what people might be saying - basically, I'm a nosy parker. 

 I have, despite all promises, taken up rowing in the last few weeks, and the boat house has become a strange familiarity full of pain inflicting machines, performance rowers and well - boats. It is a place where I am forced to speak french with no safety net of a fellow Brit Kid, I often feel slightly out of my comfort zone at the boat club, terrified that my new friends will become bored of attempting to understand my ridiculous Franglais. Thus far, everyone has been most understanding and incredibly patient, telling me words for 'blades', 'bench press' and 'watering can' and explaining their somewhat strange methods of training. Rowing is to say the least, very different to what I am used to in good old Blighty, but i am very much enjoying it and they seem to be very happy that I have joined, fascinated by my British technique...'you use our legs first, its very interesting'....and impressed with what I achieved with my crews in Britain. In fact, I'm off to Switzerland and South-East France to compete against Europe's finest in November. Yes, rowing has invaded my Erasmus year. 

I am currently on a train back from Montpellier where I spent my last weekend visiting my lovely friend Liv, from Reading who is also studying abroad, for her 21st birthday. I left for Montpellier on Thursday m on a night train, first experience of such a thing, very exciting but also very sleep depriving! A night train in France consists on a series of cabins containing, six bunk beds, one of which would be my bed for the evening. My ticket booking allowed me to state that I am a 'dame (woman travelling alone), and was therefore sharing with only other women. Women that insisting on snoring loudly enough to ensure I got no sleep on my ten hour voyage. I was also made aware of the rumours of crime rates on night trains, so spent to whole night hugging my valuables to my chest, like some sort of squirrel guarding a nut. Suffice to say, I did not come face to face with any such crime statistic, thankfully. 

Anyway, we had a great weekend, discovering Montpellier, hanging out with a new group of Brit Kidz and in my case insisting on believing it was still summer despite the drop in temperature in the sunny med. I am proud to say that on sunday morning I was able to cure my hangover with a crazy swim in the sea and succeeding in shocking the fully (and more appropriately) dressed French families on their sunday strolls!! Montpellier is a great student city, where all languages can be heard being spoken, the weather is lovely and mild in October and the whole city screams French Urban Cool with a hint of holiday ambiance. Just what the doctor ordered for my oh-so-hard-life.

Anyway, best stop waffling, approaching my homeland NANCY VILLE! It is 8pm and I must crack out 'copie-double' essay on French separation of powers for tomorrow morning (8am) - WHEN will I learn to be organised....jamais. 



Bisous kidz xxxx

Tuesday, 2 October 2012

Oktoberfest...3 days for 8 hours....


So aside from the vigorous day to day lifestyle of an Erasmus law student, I have chosen to make use this year of the fact there no longer lies the English Channel between myself and mainland Europe. This will obviously be put to more use on receiving my Erasmus grant which after said expensive adventures, I eagerly await. Nevertheless, I would not dare allow such a trivial factor such as money to prevent me from sampling some of Europe’s finest cultural activities....

Oktoberfest, for example, obviously a very cultural, educational and thought provoking experience for any youth of today. In fact, you may be surprised to hear that despite my sarcastic tones, in reality, Oktoberfest was all of the above, in its own very very special way. After a week of heavy partying and studying (obvs) through the week, we set off for Munich, Germany at around 10pm last Friday night, beers in hand and blissfully unaware of the tumultuous bus journey that lay ahead. To say that this French bus driver was a lunatic would be an understatement. He insisted on the heating being on full blast, drove as if he were playing a computer game, and absolutely loved reversing for no apparent reason. At one of the toilet stops, I woke up from my slumber to find he had managed to drive us into what can only be described as a building yard, enclosed with big metal gates. He then proceeded to instruct one of our fellow passengers to open these gates while he reversed (without reason) out of the building sight with such force that I prepared myself for the bus to roll! To make matters worse, the Serbian girls sat in front of us clearly did not read up on bus etiquette before boarding a bus with Brits as it is clearly not OK to recline your seat to its full potential of reclination, leaving the person sat behind you (me) with absolutely no room and less than impressed.

So we eventually made it Munich at around 7am, a little bit dazed and consumed with fatigue, confused as to what we would do with ourselves for the next few hours. Before we set off, however, we were provided with a complimentary Petit Déjuner, consisting of a carton of pomme juice, a piece of baguette and literally 4 squares of chocolate! Too tired to question this choice of breakfast, I consumed it happily!

Our confusion was soon put to rest as we realised the Germans like to start their day early, Oktoberfest included, the party started at 9am! And if we wished to be included in the party and as we decided to go on the busiest day of the entire festival, we would have to queue for approximately 2 hours! We chose to queue for the tent with the biggest queue as we concluded that the Germans knew the best and the time passed fairly quickly as we people-watched the crowds of Germans dressed in their fabulously traditional gear and giggled at the security woman nearby who had taken her position of power way too seriously! Once inside the tent (it was more like a castle!) we were taken aback by the electric atmosphere; people running and diving to get a table for the day, the music from the bandstand in the centre of the massive room and the smell of pretzels and beer swarmed through the air. In Germany, there will be no queuing at a bar to wait for your massively oversized stein beer, a man with enormous strength will come to your table and bring you one in exchange for a mere 9.40 Euros. Excellent!

So three steins later, a load of chanting and cheering pretending to know the words to the traditional German songs and having made friends with three hilarious German chaps, we were well of our way to experiencing the delights of Oktoberfest. My delight was temporarily interrupted when some fool from the next table was sick on my arm – possibly the grossest thing ever. I just washed it off with lots of Oktoberfest soap and got on with my day! Clearly no French practice occurred during our day as everyone spoke German and obviously all Germans can speak English too – show offs! The general atmosphere, togetherness and the traditional influence was really outstanding, everybody was in good spirits and overjoyed to welcome foreigners to their festival. Im not sure that a beer festival with such tradition would follow the same format in Britain!

I for one, despite my overbearing fatigue from lack of sleep on torture bus, was NOT ready to leave. But at 5pm, after sampling a few rides and eating a Bratwurst something or other, we once again boarded the torture bus to endure a further 10 hours of sleep-deprived, slightly tipsy to begin with then hung-over travelling back to Nancy. It is now Tuesday, and I am still recovering from the approximately 8 hours I spent in Munich but I would, without doubt, do it all again! But for now, I am looking forward to Tom’s arrival tomorrow and to show him with pride, my new home!

Bisous xxxx

Thursday, 27 September 2012

Settling in....

Settling in...
 
With two weeks of REAL french life under my belt, I felt it was just about time for another update. I think headings are necessary:

Lectures
I have now started to attend french lectures, understanding very little but finding it very amusing all the same. (actually writing this on my iPad during a International public law lecture right now-use of time and all that!) Im also studying criminal, contract, private and constitutional law...all in french
French students, thank god, are ALOT more conscientious in lectures than we are in England. They hang on to every word from the lecture, and you always know when the lecturer is saying something of great importance when you hear a wave of typing sweep the massive, draughty lecture theatre. Thats when I try to listen harder. However, as we have been advised on many occasions, tip number one for erasmus students is to approach one of the said conscientious french students and explain how you are a poor erasmus student and its too difficult for us to listen, understand and write our notes in lectures so would they mind emailing me theirs and they mainly cant wait to help and I have got my speech down to a T. So basically our lectures are spent mostly trying to unravel what is being said, working out the dates and sections of the code civil they throw at us then comparing, with great hilarity, what ridiculous made-up word we each thought they might have said!!
I have been told that in a few weeks I will notice an improvement on the speed of unravelling, and I must admit I have already noticed this improvement. Slow but steady!!

Cooking
Baguettes, croissants, baguettes, baguettes and some pasta and pesto. This is no exaggeration of the consistence of my diet thus far. Not great, and I have grown about three more bellies thanks to ridiculous amount of carbs consumed. Its basically impossible to eat well here, the kitchen provided in halls can not really be described as a kitchen; more of a room of worktops with a sink and two hobs-shared with like 60 people. No oven, no microwave, no utensils - NIGHTMARE!! Thankfully, the rents bought me a double hob and cupboard to put in my room and the main utensils and I have managed to make a spag bol - big achievement. The other option is the RESTO U, basically a massive cafeteria serving hot food for 3 euros a go. Pas mal. 

Sports
Sports integration has begun this week! Very exciting news for me-no more running aimlessly and getting profoundly lost in this strange city and getting strange looks doing push-ups in the park! So much to do and get involved in which is great, and it only costs 10 euros for sports membership for the year which includes gym membership, unlimited swimming, classes and sports clubs! Unbelievable! Monday was devoted to trying out water-polo which is probably my new favourite sport. Being the only girl that turned up, I was got well and truly stuck in trying to prove my ability despite being a girl aaand I was only pushed under the water a few times-bonus!! Tuesday, i attended the competitive swimming class, training as I did when I was at school, a bit of a blast from the past and im not sure im going to carry on doing that. Have still got rowing, salsa, body sculpt, box fit, running club and yoga to try! 

Nightlife
Best till last-still absolutely loving life in the LOVE BOAT. But you will be pleased to know that we have broadened our horizons and allowed ourselves to sample some other Nancy nightclubs. Namely, 'LE CHAT NOIR' nightclub, which entails a revolving dance floor (very confusing after too much vin rosé!!), 'L'ENVERS' nightclub which entails a park slide as an option for entry in the club. At which point I would like to point out that the said additional elements to the nightclubs do not necessarily comply with any sort of health and safety regs, deffo a recipe for disaster for the Brit Kidz in the near future! Last night, Sarah and I sampled two more upmarket clubs in the centre of the city, but sadly, these clubs did not have any such crazy features but still provided a wicked night! I even met a fleet of olympic rowers - win! 

So although I could go on forever, I think this ESSAY of a post pretty much sums up my life here so far. Feeling really happy and settled now after a few wobbly days at the start. Meeting some amazing friends and loving french life, relaxed to the max - a never ending holiday. Vive ERASMUS.

Ciao for now!! 
BISOUS XOO

Thursday, 13 September 2012

Touchdown

La vie française

Salut mes amies!!

Firstly, I am happy to announce that i am alive, well and just about coping with everything that being une etudiante francaise throws at me. Today is the evening of my 6th day (crikes Iv been here for a week) and i have 100% fallen in love with the town of Nancy. It is beaut. I would even go as far as to say that it is more beautiful than Paris which is obviously a big statement.
 The town itself represents an idyllic view of a typical french town, with streets after streets of grand stonewashed buildings with massive doors, and windows with private balconies and shutters. In the centre of town is place stanislas, a big square with venecian influenced architecture, lined with cafés in which it is easy to pass hours with a glass of vin rosé watching the world go by. There is also a new york style central park called Park a la pepienere, great place for chillaxing, using the outdoor gym, going to the zoo (there is a zoo in the middle of this park) and for attending concerts at the outdoor theatre - just lovely.

So aside from my lonely planet-esque quide to Nancy, my arrival here on friday was, as expected a little bit turbulent. Thanks to sally the sat-nav, we located my halls fairly quickly and on arrival the moody, unwelcoming and quite frankly fat receptionist asked me for my halls confirmation letter. At this point, i nearly exploded with anger because i did not receive such a document despite furious telephoning and emailing the residence. So she gave me an evil glare and proceeded to shuffle through piles of paper until she came across my application with my mug shot attached. Anyway - i finally got the keys to some halls down the road to the one i applied for. A dirty, depressive looking equivalent to the halls i applied for. The room i had been allocated was DISGUSTING, yellow stained thin mattress, disgusting sink and desk chair and the window was probably the only window in Nancy without a shutter!! Now, I wouldnt describe myself as a princess in most situations and i normally get on with it. However, the thought of living in that dingy room for the whole year practicaly reduced me to tears. So, long story short - I complained to said horrible reception lady who phoned the 'directrice' to see if i could be re- allocated to a better room. A better room which i am now tucked up in bed in, a better room with a window shutter, an en-suite, lovely mattress etc etc. HAPPY DAYS.

So after dumping my bags in my better room I left to make my way to the welcome meeting for erasmus students in the faculté de droit (the law school). I obviously got lost as i only left myself 15 mins to get there and i was obviously 25minutes late - standard behaviour. Although it seems that being late is easily forgiven here which bodes well for me as i would be late for my own funeral. The lecturer jabbered on in french for a good two hours explaining how great this year will be for us - even though theres gonna be loads of work. I quickly noticed that there was a large section of brit kidz in the meeting and Monsieur Gassier warned us that the brit kidz are renowned for hanging out together and this is something we must not do because we will not improve our french. And what did we do? We all got together that evening, pre drank a bottle of €2 vin rosé and continued to get suitably trashed together at the welcome evening in the LOVE BOAT. The LOVE BOAT for future reference
 is absolutely amazing, we brit kidz absolutely can not get enough of the LOVE BOAT with its playlist mainly consisting of hits from the 90s' (Shania Twain and the Spice Girls) and it is likely that we will surpass many a soiree there. I did, however, integrate with the other erasmus students, have met lots of lovely german girls, a greek guy who is 'mon meillure amie' (basically my new gay best friend) - i hope Monsieur Gassier will be proud. But the brit kidz are deffo winning in the popularity stakes, they are all lovely, up for a laugh and bring a little bit of home with them.

In other news - i have succesfully managed to set up my own french bank account, french phone, i have bought and eaten lots of baguettes, and attended and understood a few sentences of REAL french law lectures. I would say im nearly a fully fledged french citizen. Very nearly. 

Start booking in your visits people - i cant wait.

BISOUS XXXXXOOOO

Pre-Nancy nerves



Heeelloooo world of bloggers!!!

As I am about to embark on my first adult adventure...I thought I should mark the momentous occasion by creating a blog in order to note my ramblings and sure to be ridiculous experiences of my year abroad in Nancy, France. Even if this blog is of absolutely no interest to readers (likely), I think it is a necessary requirement for my own records in years to come!

I have known about this upcoming year for at least three years now, and up until now it has existed as a semi-conscious section in my head, having not really thought or done anything significant in order to prepare. And now, I have three days until my departure and it still hasn't sunk in that I am moving to a different country to study more of the stupid law and this time it will be in FRENCH. (lol). Having already meandered through two years of studying Law at Reading University I'm not sure how much of my time I will religiously devote to my studies. Im aiming to pass the year academically and ace the year socially. Fair aim in my opinion. 

My knowledge of Nancy so far is somewhat limited. Its definitely on the border of Germany, it's definitely around 3 hours from the likes of Paris and Brussels (where I am flying into on Friday) and its definitely around 87km from the nearest ski resort (saaweeet) according to my friend Chantelle who willbe joining me on my nancy legal adventure!!

So basically, I have three days to organise my life, pack my required crap into two 20kg suitcases, say my goodbyes and get my cool, and French chic head on in order to make a big impression on Friday ready for the International student's welcome party in the discotheque 'Love Boat'. CANT WAIT!!!


Peace for now and a Gros BISOUS 

Em xxx